You’re planning a baby shower and you know you need games.
But here’s your problem: most baby shower games are painfully awkward.
You’ve been to those showers. The ones where guests groan inwardly when the host announces game time. Where everyone politely participates while secretly checking their phones. Where the pregnant person looks uncomfortable and guests look bored.
You don’t want that shower. You want genuine laughter, real engagement, and activities people actually enjoy. You want baby shower games that create memories rather than awkward silences.
So you start searching online. You find the same tired suggestions repeated everywhere: guess the baby food flavor, measure the belly with toilet paper, smell the diaper filled with melted chocolate. These games were dated twenty years ago. Now they’re just cringe-inducing.
Here’s what makes finding good baby shower games so frustrating: most lists recycle the same outdated ideas without considering what modern guests actually want from a baby shower.
You need fresh ideas. Games that respect guests’ intelligence and time. Activities that create connection rather than embarrassment. Options for different group sizes, budgets, and shower styles. Baby shower games that people will remember fondly rather than endure politely.
This comprehensive guide provides over 100 baby shower games that guests genuinely enjoy. We’ve organized them by category—icebreakers, active games, creative activities, games for co-ed showers, and more. Each game includes clear instructions, variations for different group sizes, and honest assessments of what works and what doesn’t.
From quick five-minute icebreakers to elaborate activities that become shower highlights, from games that work for intimate gatherings to options for large parties, you’ll find ideas that match your shower’s vibe and your guests’ preferences.
Let’s transform your baby shower from obligation into celebration with games people actually want to play.
- Why Most Baby Shower Games Fall Flat
- Icebreaker Baby Shower Games
- Creative and Collaborative Baby Shower Games
- Active Baby Shower Games
- Games for Co-Ed Baby Showers
- Quick and Easy Baby Shower Games
- Sentimental Baby Shower Games
- Virtual Baby Shower Games
- Food-Related Baby Shower Games
- Games That Give Back
- FAQ: Baby Shower Games
- Making Your Baby Shower Games Successful
- The Bottom Line on Baby Shower Games
Why Most Baby Shower Games Fall Flat
Before diving into better options, let’s understand why traditional baby shower games often fail.
The Embarrassment Factor
Many classic baby shower games involve public embarrassment. Measuring a pregnant person’s belly forces them to stand while strangers estimate their size. Tasting baby food blindfolded makes adults look foolish. Sniffing diapers filled with candy bars disguised as something else crosses lines of taste.
These games assume humiliation equals entertainment. They don’t. Modern guests prefer activities that create genuine fun rather than forcing laughter at someone’s expense.
The pregnant person especially shouldn’t feel like the butt of jokes at their own celebration. Games should honor them, not make them uncomfortable about their changing body or impending parenthood challenges.
The Infantilization Problem
Some baby shower games treat intelligent adults like toddlers. Guests don’t want to pin pacifiers on posters while blindfolded or race to dress dolls. These activities might work for children’s parties but feel condescending at adult gatherings.
Adults attending a baby shower want to celebrate new life, support their friend or family member, and enjoy socializing. They don’t need juvenile activities to have fun. Respect for guests’ intelligence makes for better baby shower games.
The Forced Participation Issue
Traditional baby shower formats often require everyone to participate in every game. Introverts squirm. People who arrived to eat cake and give presents feel trapped. Forcing participation creates resentment rather than enjoyment.
Better baby shower games offer choices. Some guests can participate actively while others observe comfortably. Some activities happen in small groups rather than with everyone watching. Voluntary participation feels more respectful.
The Prize Problem
Many baby shower games offer prizes to winners. This creates competition where it’s not needed. Not everyone wants to compete for a scented candle or box of chocolates. Some guests feel awkward winning while the pregnant person watches. Others feel embarrassed losing at simple games.
Games can be fun without prizes. When everyone enjoys the activity itself, external rewards become unnecessary. If you do offer prizes, make them meaningful or funny rather than generic.
What Actually Works
Good baby shower games share common characteristics. They respect all participants. They create genuine connection among guests. They celebrate the upcoming baby without making anyone uncomfortable. They’re optional rather than mandatory. They work for different personalities and energy levels.
The best baby shower games feel less like forced activities and more like natural conversation starters or collaborative creative projects. They enhance the party rather than interrupting it.
Icebreaker Baby Shower Games
Starting with the right activities helps guests relax and connect.
Baby Predictions and Wishes
This gentle activity works beautifully for any baby shower size or style. As guests arrive, they receive cards asking them to predict things about the baby or write wishes for the child’s future.
How it works: Create cards with prompts like “Baby will be born on (date),” “Baby’s first word will be,” “When baby grows up, they will be,” or “My wish for this baby is.” Guests fill cards out at their leisure rather than on demand. Collect cards in a decorated box for parents to read later.
Why it works: No pressure, no performance, no embarrassment. Guests contribute thoughtfully rather than rushing. Parents get a keepsake they’ll treasure. The activity happens naturally throughout the shower rather than stopping everything for a game.
Variations: For virtual showers, create a digital form guests submit before the event. Read selected predictions during the shower. For intimate gatherings, have each guest share their prediction aloud during a circle time.
This activity particularly shines because it focuses on the baby’s future rather than testing guests’ knowledge or making anyone uncomfortable. According to research on social bonding at celebrations, shared anticipation and collaborative meaning-making strengthen group connections.
Two Truths and a Lie: Baby Edition
This classic icebreaker gets a baby-themed twist that helps guests learn about each other while celebrating the occasion.
How it works: Each guest shares three statements about their own childhood or parenting experiences. Two statements are true and one is false. Others guess which is the lie. Examples: “I was born at home,” “I had an imaginary friend named Mr. Pickles,” “My mom went into labor during a snowstorm.”
Why it works: Guests share real stories that spark conversation. Everyone learns something about the people around them. The focus is on genuine connection rather than silly tasks. Stories often lead to longer conversations after the game ends.
Timing: Allow 1-2 minutes per person, so this works best for smaller showers (under 20 people). For larger groups, break into smaller circles or use it just for close friends and family.
Baby Bingo
This classic gets new life with thoughtful customization. Unlike old versions where guests mark off gifts as they’re opened, modern baby bingo focuses on predictions.
How it works: Create bingo cards with potential gifts in each square: diapers, onesies, books, blankets, bottles, teethers, etc. As the pregnant person opens gifts, guests mark off corresponding squares. First to complete a row wins, or play until someone gets full card blackout.
Why it works: Guests have something to do during gift opening, which can otherwise feel long. It adds gentle excitement without requiring anyone to perform. People pay attention to gifts rather than scrolling phones.
Modern twist: Create cards with predictions about pregnancy, birth, or first year: “Baby will have hair,” “Labor will last more than 12 hours,” “Baby will sleep through the night by 3 months,” “Parents will get a pet within the year.” Check off squares over time and reconnect at baby’s first birthday to see results.
Name That Tune: Baby Songs
This musical game gets everyone singing and remincing without embarrassment.
How it works: Play short clips (5-10 seconds) of famous children’s songs or lullabies. Guests write down song titles. Whoever identifies the most songs wins, or skip prizes and just enjoy the nostalgia.
Song suggestions: “Twinkle Twinkle Little Star,” “Itsy Bitsy Spider,” “Wheels on the Bus,” “Baby Shark,” “You Are My Sunshine,” “Brahms’ Lullaby,” “Hush Little Baby,” “Rock-a-Bye Baby,” theme songs from children’s shows.
Why it works: Music triggers happy memories. No one has to perform or do anything embarrassing. Even people who don’t know songs enjoy listening. Creates warm, nostalgic atmosphere perfect for a baby shower.
Virtual adaptation: Works perfectly for online baby showers. Share screen to play clips. Guests type answers in chat or submit via quick poll.
Creative and Collaborative Baby Shower Games
These activities produce keepsakes while bringing people together.
Decorate a Onesie Station
Transform guests into artists with this hands-on creative activity that produces adorable, usable gifts.
Setup: Provide plain white onesies in various sizes (newborn through 12 months), fabric markers, iron-on letters and shapes, fabric paint, stencils, and stamps. Set up a crafting station where guests can work throughout the shower.
Instructions: Guests decorate onesies with messages, designs, or artwork. Encourage creativity: funny sayings, sweet messages, animals, patterns, or whatever inspires them. Set finished onesies aside to dry or heat-set later.
Why it works: Creative without requiring artistic talent. Guests work at their own pace. Makes practical gifts parents will actually use. Quiet guests appreciate solo creative time while social guests chat while crafting. Parents get a collection of unique, meaningful clothes their baby will wear.
Tips: Provide inspiration images but don’t make rules. Some guests will create intricate designs while others write simple messages—both are perfect. Place cardboard inside onesies so markers don’t bleed through layers.
Budget consideration: Plain onesies cost $2-4 each. Fabric markers run $10-15 for a set. This activity costs roughly the same as buying a standard prize package but produces something far more meaningful.
Build a Book Library
Instead of a traditional card, guests bring or write in books to build baby’s library.
How it works: Include a note with shower invitations asking guests to bring a favorite children’s book instead of a card. At the shower, guests write messages on book’s inside cover or on bookplates tucked inside. Creates a library full of books with personal meaning and messages.
Alternative approach: Provide blank board books and art supplies. Guests create original stories and illustrations. These homemade books become treasured keepsakes as children grow.
Why it works: Builds a library of books with personal significance. Children eventually read the messages and know who gave each book. More meaningful than generic cards that get tossed. According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, early reading with children supports brain development, making this both sentimental and practical.
Display idea: Set up a bookshelf or basket at the shower where guests place their books. Makes a lovely decoration and lets everyone see the growing library.
Advice Cards with a Twist
Traditional advice cards get boring quickly. These variations make the activity more engaging and useful.
Specific advice categories: Instead of generic “give new parents advice,” create categories. Separate cards for “advice for the first week,” “advice for sleep,” “advice for self-care,” “advice for relationship,” “things no one tells you but should,” “survival tips for hard days.”
Mad Libs style: Create fill-in-the-blank templates with prompts. “When baby won’t stop crying, try ___.” “The most important thing I learned as a parent is ___.” “You’ll be surprised by ___.” “Don’t forget to ___.” Templates make it easier for guests to contribute thoughtful advice quickly.
Bad advice: Add humor by asking for worst possible advice. “What’s the worst parenting advice you’ve ever received?” or “What terrible advice can you offer these new parents?” Reading these aloud during the shower generates lots of laughs.
Why it works: Specific prompts yield more useful responses than “give advice.” Parents get genuinely helpful information they’ll reference later. Humor variations keep the activity fun rather than preachy.
Nursery Design Collaboration
Channel collective creativity into designing elements for baby’s nursery.
How it works: Set up stations for different projects. One station for decorating wooden letters that spell baby’s name. Another for creating artwork to hang in the nursery. A third for designing a growth chart. Guests rotate through stations or choose which appeals to them.
Why it works: Produces nursery items parents will actually use and display. Guests with different talents contribute differently—artistic guests make detailed designs while others write messages or choose colors. Collaborative effort creates items more special than anything bought in stores.
Virtual adaptation: Send project materials to guests before the shower. Everyone works on the same project (like decorating a letter for baby’s name) during a video call. Parents receive completed letters by mail and assemble into baby’s name for nursery.
Time Capsule Creation
Build a collection of memories for baby to open years later.
Materials needed: A sturdy box or container, paper for letters, pens, small items to include, decorating supplies for the container.
What guests contribute: Letters to baby (to be opened at age 18 or 21), predictions about the future, current news headlines, popular culture references, photos of themselves to show baby “what we looked like when you were born,” small meaningful objects.
Why it works: Creates something genuinely special and lasting. Imagining baby as an adult reading these messages feels meaningful. Guests enjoy thinking about what the world might be like in 18 years. Zero embarrassment factor.
Parents’ contribution: Add items throughout baby’s first year—hospital bracelet, first outfit, newborn photos, monthly updates. Seal the time capsule on baby’s first birthday.
Active Baby Shower Games
For groups that enjoy movement and energy, these games deliver fun without forced awkwardness.
Baby Bottle Bowling
This simple game works indoors or outdoors and requires no special skills.
Setup: Arrange baby bottles (filled with water for weight) in bowling pin formation. Use any ball that can knock them down—tennis ball, small playground ball, or even rolled-up socks.
How to play: Guests take turns rolling the ball to knock down bottles. Keep score if desired or just play for fun. Reset bottles after each turn or each round.
Why it works: Simple, active, no embarrassment. Anyone can participate regardless of athletic ability. Easy setup with minimal cost. Works for all ages if children attend the shower.
Variations: For competitive groups, track scores and declare a winner. For casual groups, just enjoy knocking things down. Make it harder by increasing distance or using smaller balls.
Diaper Derby
Turn diaper changing into a relay race that’s genuinely fun rather than awkward.
What you need: Baby dolls (or stuffed animals), diapers, and tables or changing stations.
How to play: Divide into teams. Each team member races to properly diaper the doll, then tags the next teammate. First team to finish wins. For added challenge, do it one-handed or blindfolded (though blindfolding pushes into awkward territory some guests might dislike).
Why it works: Skill-based rather than knowledge-based. Gives new parents practice in a fun context. Creates laughter through challenge rather than humiliation. Team format reduces individual pressure.
Safety note: If playing one-handed or blindfolded, ensure clear space to prevent trips or falls.
Don’t Say Baby
This ongoing game runs throughout the entire baby shower, adding gentle challenge without stopping conversation.
How it works: Give each guest a clothespin, bracelet, or sticker as they arrive. The rule: don’t say the word “baby.” If someone catches you saying it, they take your pin. Person with most pins at shower’s end wins, or person who never loses their pin wins.
Why it works: Runs in the background without interrupting the party. Creates playful awareness without forcing participation. Guests who don’t want to play simply don’t collect pins from others. Adds gentle fun to ordinary conversations.
Variations: Choose different forbidden words—”cute,” “little,” the baby’s name, “pregnant.” Or make it positive: certain words earn you pins rather than losing them. When someone says “congratulations,” they get a pin.
Why some guests dislike it: Penalizes natural conversation. Can feel nitpicky or annoying. Some people genuinely forget they’re playing and feel frustrated when pins get taken. Consider your crowd before choosing this game.
Baby Shower Bingo: Physical Activity Version
Unlike traditional baby bingo, this version gets people moving.
How it works: Create bingo cards with activities instead of words: “hug the mom-to-be,” “take a selfie with someone new,” “write a letter to baby,” “try a shower snack you’ve never had,” “compliment another guest,” “share a parenting tip.”
Rules: Guests complete activities to mark squares. First to complete a row or full card wins. Activities encourage mingling and participation without forced embarrassment.
Why it works: Gives shy guests structured ways to interact. Encourages mixing rather than staying in comfortable groups. Activities are positive and low-pressure. Creates natural conversation opportunities.
Games for Co-Ed Baby Showers
Modern baby showers often include partners, and these games work well for mixed groups.
Baby Photo Matching Game
This universally appealing game works for any crowd and always generates great reactions.
Preparation: Before the shower, collect baby photos from guests (or at least key attendees—parents-to-be, close family, friends). Number each photo. Display photos on a board, table, or slideshow.
How to play: Guests try to match baby photos to current adults. Provide answer sheets where they write their guesses. Reveal answers during the shower, showing each baby photo next to the person’s current photo.
Why it works: Everyone loves seeing baby pictures. Generates genuine laughter and “I can totally see it!” moments. No one feels embarrassed because everyone was adorable as a baby. Works equally well for all genders and ages.
Variations: Include only the parents-to-be’s baby photos mixed with decoys. Or focus on one family—all the grandparents, aunts, uncles as babies. For virtual showers, create a digital slideshow and share screen.
Baby-Themed Trivia
Test knowledge about babies in general, not guests’ personal information, keeping it fun rather than invasive.
Categories: Animal babies (baby kangaroos are joeys, baby swans are cygnets), celebrity baby names, baby-related world records, baby development milestones, historical baby facts, baby-themed movies and songs.
Format: Create teams or let individuals play. Ask questions and give time to write answers. Read correct answers after each round or at the end.
Sample questions: “What are baby rabbits called?” (kits or kittens), “Which celebrity named their baby Blue Ivy?” (Beyoncé and Jay-Z), “At what age do babies typically start crawling?” (6-10 months), “What’s the most popular baby name of 2024?”
Why it works: Knowledge-based rather than skill-based. Team format encourages collaboration. Questions focus on interesting facts rather than personal information. Both competitive and non-competitive guests enjoy learning trivia.
Guess the Price: Baby Edition
This game reveals how much baby items actually cost—often shocking first-time parents.
Setup: Gather or display photos of baby items with widely varying prices: diapers, wipes, crib, car seat, stroller, baby carrier, bottles, formula, baby monitor, nursery furniture.
How to play: Guests write down their price guesses. Reveal actual prices. Whoever gets closest overall wins, or award points for each item and tally total.
Why it works: Educational for new parents who genuinely don’t know baby item costs. Eye-opening for experienced parents who remember the expense. Men often engage more with price-based games than sentiment-based ones. Generates conversation about which items are worth splurging on versus saving.
Helpful context: Use this game to subtly educate about costs rather than just as competition. Mention that the average family spends over $12,000 on baby items in the first year according to consumer research, helping parents-to-be budget realistically.
Daddy Knows Best
For showers honoring partners, this game celebrates the non-birthing parent’s knowledge and involvement.
Preparation: Before the shower, ask the expectant parent questions about pregnancy, nursery plans, baby names, or parenting philosophy. Record their answers.
How to play: At the shower, ask the partner the same questions publicly. Compare their answers to what their partner said. Award points for matches.
Sample questions: “What is our top baby name choice?” “What color is the nursery?” “Who will change the first diaper?” “What are you most excited about?” “What are you most nervous about?”
Why it works: Celebrates the partner’s involvement and knowledge. Creates sweet moments when answers match. Avoids putting all focus on the pregnant person. Shows that both parents are preparing together.
Important: Keep questions positive rather than setting up the partner to fail. The goal is celebration, not embarrassment. Skip this game if relationships are complicated or if it might create uncomfortable dynamics.
Team Trivia Challenge
Divide guests into teams for collaborative competition that works for all personality types.
Team formation: Let people self-select into teams of 4-6, mix different friend groups, or assign teams randomly. Mixing encourages guests to meet new people.
Question categories: Baby animal names, famous parents and their babies, baby-themed songs and movies, baby development facts, pregnancy trivia, nursery rhymes, baby product brands.
Format: Teams huddle to answer each question. Each round, one team member writes the answer. Rotate who writes to involve everyone. Award points for correct answers. Most points wins.
Why it works: Team collaboration reduces pressure on individuals. Allows both competitive and casual participation. Mixing groups encourages socializing. Knowledge varies—someone knows celebrity baby names while someone else knows animal babies.
Quick and Easy Baby Shower Games
Sometimes you need simple games requiring minimal preparation and time.
Who Knows Mommy/Daddy Best?
Test how well guests know the expectant parent(s) with this simple question game.
How it works: Prepare questions about the parent-to-be: their favorite color, where they were born, their childhood dreams, how they met their partner, their biggest pregnancy craving, their parenting role model.
Format: Read questions aloud. Guests write answers. Person with most correct answers wins. Or skip scoring and just enjoy learning fun facts.
Why it works: Quick to prepare—just write questions. No materials needed beyond paper and pens. Helps guests learn about the person they’re celebrating. Creates opportunities for the parent to share stories.
Guess the Number
The simplest game on this list requires only a jar of small items.
Setup: Fill a jar with small baby-related items: cotton balls (for all the times they’ll clean spit-up), safety pins, pacifiers, jelly beans (represent baby’s first year in sweetness).
How to play: Guests guess how many items are in the jar. Write guesses down. Reveal the actual count. Closest guess wins.
Why it works: Requires zero skill or knowledge. Quick participation—takes 30 seconds per person. Can happen as guests arrive rather than interrupting the party. Works for absolutely any crowd.
Make it meaningful: Count represents something significant. If using 365 jelly beans (days in a year), mention “representing each sweet day of baby’s first year.” Turns simple game into symbolic gesture.
Over or Under
This rapid-fire game keeps energy up with quick guesses about baby-related statistics.
How it works: State a number and category. Guests guess whether the real answer is over or under that number.
Examples: “The average newborn weighs 7.5 pounds—over or under?” “Babies go through 8 diapers a day—over or under?” “Babies sleep 16 hours a day—over or under?” “The average crib costs $300—over or under?”
Scoring: Guests stand. Read a question. People guess over by raising hand, under by keeping it down. Those who guess wrong sit down. Last person standing wins.
Why it works: Moves quickly—whole game takes 5-10 minutes. Requires no materials. Creates movement and energy. Everyone can participate simultaneously.
Name That Baby Item
Show pictures of baby products with brand names removed. Guests guess what each item is.
Setup: Find photos of unusual baby items: Nose Frida (snot sucker), breast pump, bottle warmer, wipe warmer, baby nail clippers, medicine dispenser, diaper pail, bouncer, sleep sack.
How to play: Show each photo. Guests write down what they think it is. Reveal actual use. Award points for correct answers.
Why it works: Genuinely challenging even for experienced parents because baby products have gotten increasingly specialized. Creates good-natured bewilderment. Educational for new parents who didn’t know these products existed.
The Price is Right: Diaper Edition
Focus specifically on one product category for a quick game.
How it works: Display or describe different diaper brands and types: store brand, Pampers, Huggies, eco-friendly brands, cloth diapers. Guests guess price per diaper.
Reality check: Reveal that babies use 2,500-3,000 diapers in their first year. At an average of $0.25-0.35 per diaper, that’s $625-1,050 just on diapers. This information helps parents budget.
Why it works: Quick but informative. Highlights real costs of parenthood. Simple game with practical takeaway.
Sentimental Baby Shower Games
These activities create emotional moments and lasting memories.
Wishes for Baby
Each guest contributes hopes and dreams for the child’s future.
How it works: Provide beautiful cards or paper. Ask guests to write wishes, hopes, dreams, or blessings for the baby. Prompts might include: “I hope you always,” “May you grow up to,” “My wish for you is,” “I hope you never forget.”
Collection: Place completed wishes in a decorated box, jar, or album. Parents can read them whenever they need encouragement or save them for baby to read when older.
Why it works: Deeply meaningful without being uncomfortable. Guests contribute at their own pace. Creates a keepsake parents will treasure. Focuses on love and hope rather than competition or performance.
Display option: Create a “wish tree” where guests hang their wishes from branches. Makes a beautiful shower decoration that doubles as a keepsake.
Letters to Baby
Guests write letters baby will read at significant future moments.
Setup: Provide nice stationery and envelopes. Label envelopes with occasions: “Open on your first day of kindergarten,” “Read on your 13th birthday,” “Open before your graduation,” “Read when you need encouragement,” “Open on your wedding day.”
Instructions: Guests choose an envelope and write an appropriate letter. They might share advice, hopes, memories, or just love. Seal letters in envelopes for parents to save.
Why it works: Creates tangible connections between baby and the people celebrating their arrival. Imagining baby at different life stages feels meaningful. Letters become treasures as child grows.
Emotional impact: Fair warning—this activity often makes people cry happy tears. Have tissues available. That’s not a bad thing at a baby shower celebrating new life.
Mommy and Daddy Interview
Instead of quizzing guests, interview the parents-to-be about their hopes, fears, and plans.
Format: Designate a host to ask questions while everyone listens. Or provide questions written on cards that parents answer together.
Questions: “What are you most excited about?” “What are you most nervous about?” “What surprised you about pregnancy?” “How has preparing for baby changed your relationship?” “What do you hope baby gets from each of you?” “What does family mean to you?”
Why it works: Focuses attention on the people being celebrated. Creates intimate moments. Helps guests understand parents’ feelings. Allows parents to share authentically.
Caution: Some parents find this spotlight uncomfortable. Know your audience. Some people want attention while others prefer keeping things light.
Guess the Baby Song: Emotional Edition
Use meaningful songs rather than children’s music for this variation.
Song choices: “Isn’t She Lovely” (Stevie Wonder), “Beautiful Boy” (John Lennon), “You’ll Be in My Heart” (Phil Collins), “A Song for Mama” (Boyz II Men), “The Best Day” (Taylor Swift), other songs about parents and children.
How to play: Play song clips. Guests identify titles and artists. Between rounds, share why these songs matter—stories of parent-child bonds through music.
Why it works: Music triggers emotion. These songs celebrate parent-child relationships beautifully. Creates sentimental atmosphere appropriate for a baby shower. Guests enjoy the music even if they don’t know titles.
Virtual Baby Shower Games
For online celebrations, these games work beautifully through video calls.
Show and Tell: Baby Item Edition
Each guest shares something meaningful related to babies or parenting.
Instructions: In advance, ask guests to find one item: a photo of themselves as a baby, their favorite children’s book, something they saved from their childhood, or an item that represents their hopes for the baby.
During the shower: Each guest shows their item and shares its significance. Takes 1-2 minutes per person, so works best for smaller gatherings (under 20).
Why it works: Gives everyone a moment to participate. Stories create connection even through screens. Sharing meaningful items feels more genuine than playing contrived games.
Technical requirement: Guests need working cameras and microphones. Provide clear instructions for how to participate beforehand.
Virtual Scavenger Hunt
Send guests racing to find items in their homes.
How it works: Call out items: “Find something yellow,” “Bring something soft,” “Find something that makes noise,” “Grab something that represents love.” First person to return to screen with the item wins that round.
Baby-themed items: “Something a baby would love,” “Something that reminds you of childhood,” “A photo of yourself as a baby,” “Something that could be a baby toy.”
Why it works: Creates energy and movement during video calls that can feel static. Easy to participate—no preparation needed. Silly and fun without being embarrassing.
Timing: Each round takes 1-2 minutes. Play 5-10 rounds for a complete game.
Baby Emoji Quiz
Use emoji combinations to represent baby-related phrases, products, or concepts.
How it works: Display emoji combinations on screen. Guests type their guesses in chat. First correct answer wins that round.
Examples:
- 👶🍼 = bottle feeding
- 😴💤 = naptime
- 🚼🚗 = car seat
- 👶📸 = baby photos
- 💩💨 = diaper blowout
Why it works: Visually engaging. Easy to participate via chat. Modern and fun. Can be silly or sentimental depending on phrases chosen.
Preparation: Create a slideshow with emoji combinations. Share screen during the game. Have answers ready to reveal quickly.
Guess the Baby Photo: Virtual Edition
The classic baby photo game adapted perfectly for video calls.
Preparation: Collect baby photos from attendees before the shower. Create a digital slideshow numbered clearly.
How to play: Share screen showing all baby photos. Give guests time to study them. Then show current photos of people and ask which baby photo matches. Guests type answers in chat or use a shared form.
Why it works: Everyone loves seeing baby pictures. Screen sharing makes photos visible to all. Chat function makes answering easy. Creates nostalgic, warm atmosphere perfect for celebrating a new baby.
Virtual Nursery Tour
If the nursery is ready, share it with remote guests who can’t visit in person.
How it works: Parents-to-be give a video tour of the nursery. Show furniture, decorations, special items, handmade elements. Share stories behind meaningful pieces.
Interactive element: Guests comment in chat about favorite elements. Ask questions about design choices. Share their own nursery memories.
Why it works: Includes distant guests in something they’d miss otherwise. Creates shared experience even when physically apart. Celebrates the preparation and nesting that’s happened. Feels personal and meaningful.
Food-Related Baby Shower Games
These games incorporate eating into entertainment.
Guess the Baby Food
A classic that works if executed well and kept optional.
Setup: Remove labels from baby food jars. Number each jar. Provide small spoons and cups of water for rinsing between tastings.
How to play: Guests taste foods and guess flavors: peas, carrots, sweet potato, banana, apple, pear, prunes. Write guesses down. Reveal flavors at the end.
Important: Make participation voluntary. Many people find this game unappealing. Never pressure anyone to participate. Those who skip it shouldn’t feel awkward.
Why it works (when it does): Reveals how bland baby food tastes. Creates solidarity with baby who has to eat this stuff. Quick activity—takes 10 minutes total.
Why it fails: Forces adults to eat food designed for babies. Can feel gross or juvenile. Some people have texture aversions that make this genuinely unpleasant.
Baby Bottle Drinking Race
Adults drink from baby bottles in a timed race.
Setup: Fill baby bottles with juice, water, or another beverage. Guests race to finish contents through the bottle nipple.
Why some people enjoy it: Silly and lighthearted. Creates funny photo opportunities. Quick competition.
Why others dislike it: Infantilizing. Makes people look foolish. Can be messy. Not everyone wants to put their mouth on a bottle in front of others.
Better alternative: Use this as a photo op rather than a race. Offer it as a voluntary funny picture option instead of making everyone participate.
Decorate Cookies or Cupcakes
Turn dessert into an activity with a baby-themed decorating station.
Setup: Provide plain sugar cookies or unfrosted cupcakes, frosting in various colors, sprinkles, edible decorations shaped like babies/bottles/rattles, and decorating tools.
Activity: Guests decorate their own treats. Display finished products before eating. Take photos of creative designs.
Why it works: Creative without requiring artistic talent. Everyone gets a personalized treat. Doubles as dessert and entertainment. Works for all ages if children attend. No one feels pressured or embarrassed.
Dietary considerations: Provide options for common restrictions. Gluten-free cookies, dairy-free frosting, or nut-free decorations ensure everyone can participate.
Mocktail Making Contest
For adult showers, create a friendly mixology competition.
Setup: Provide various juices, sodas, sparkling water, fresh fruit, herbs, fun garnishes, and nice glasses.
How it works: Guests create unique non-alcoholic drinks. Name drinks with baby themes: “Labor-ade,” “Bundle of Bubbly,” “Sweet Dreams Sipper.” Everyone samples creations and votes for favorites.
Categories: Best taste, most creative, best presentation, funniest name.
Why it works: Interactive and adult without involving alcohol (respecting that the pregnant person can’t drink). Creative challenge that yields delicious results. Guests mingle while sampling drinks.
Games That Give Back
These activities combine fun with charitable contributions.
Diaper Raffle
This popular activity builds the family’s diaper stash while adding excitement to the shower.
How it works: Include a note with invitations: “Bring a pack of diapers for a raffle entry.” At the shower, each package of diapers equals one raffle ticket. Draw a winner for a nice prize.
Why it works: Parents get diapers they desperately need—babies use 2,500-3,000 diapers in the first year. Guests receive something potentially valuable for a modest contribution. Optional participation means no one feels obligated.
Prize ideas: Something generous enough to feel worth it—nice candle set, gift basket, gift card to popular restaurant, spa package. The prize should feel proportional to bringing diapers.
Considerations: Some guests feel this crosses the line from gift to requirement. Others appreciate the practical contribution. Know your crowd before including this.
Wishing Well
Guests bring small, practical items to stock the baby’s supplies.
Setup: Place a basket, crate, or actual wishing well at the shower. Include a sign explaining items needed: diapers, wipes, diaper cream, baby soap, lotion, bath toys, board books, pacifiers, teething toys.
How it works: Instead of or in addition to larger gifts, guests bring small items to add to the well. Creates a stash of everyday essentials parents will use constantly.
Why it works: Practical gifts new parents actually need. Small items don’t burden guests financially. Builds a collection of supplies that get used up quickly. More useful than decorative items that gather dust.
Books for Baby
Instead of cards, guests bring books—a version mentioned earlier that deserves emphasis as a game alternative.
The concept: Request books instead of cards with invitations. At the shower, guests write messages inside books. Baby receives a starter library full of love.
Message prompts: “When you read this book, remember,” “My favorite thing about this story is,” “I chose this book because,” “May this book teach you.”
Why it matters: According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, reading aloud with babies and toddlers supports language development, bonding, and school readiness. This activity creates a library that supports child development while giving sentimental value to each book.
Display: Arrange books at the shower so guests can see the growing collection. Creates a visual representation of community support for this child.
FAQ: Baby Shower Games
Plan 2-4 games for a 2-3 hour shower, adjusting based on your specific timeline and guest preferences. For brief showers (1-2 hours), one game plus an icebreaker works well, while longer celebrations (3-4 hours) can accommodate three games spread throughout. Consider your crowd—some groups love games while others prefer mostly socializing—and when in doubt, err toward fewer games with more mingling time. Always have a backup game ready and build in flexibility to let successful activities run longer or gracefully move on from anything that falls flat.
Prizes are completely optional and depend on your preference and budget. While they can create excitement and meet traditional expectations, they also cost money that could go toward baby gifts and can create unnecessary competition or awkward moments. If you choose to offer prizes, budget $5-15 per prize and select meaningful items people would genuinely want—favorite local chocolates, nice hand cream, baby-related items like birth month flower seeds, or relaxation items for new parents—rather than generic candles or soap sets that feel obligatory.
No, games are traditional but not mandatory—many modern showers skip them entirely in favor of socializing, eating, and gift opening. Alternatives include craft activities where guests work at their own pace, memory sharing, advice stations, beautiful dessert presentations, or outdoor activities. Trust that adults can entertain themselves through conversation if you provide comfortable seating, good food, and a welcoming atmosphere. Consider your guest list: close friends who see each other regularly might prefer catching up, while mixed groups who don’t know each other benefit from icebreaker activities.
Make all games optional and create comfortable ways to opt out by explicitly stating “Everyone’s welcome to participate or just watch and cheer” when introducing activities. Provide alternatives like comfortable seating away from the game area, photo booths, advice card stations, or nursery design projects so people can choose their comfort level. Never put individuals on the spot, go around the circle requiring participation, or call on specific people—let people volunteer rather than forcing involvement, and if a game isn’t landing, move on quickly rather than forcing it.
Large groups need games where everyone can participate simultaneously rather than taking turns, such as baby bingo during gift opening, Don’t Say Baby (ongoing game requiring no coordination), guess the number, wishes for baby, decorate a onesie stations, or baby photo matching. Avoid activities requiring everyone to share (takes too long), turn-based games (people wait restlessly), anything requiring close observation (people in back can’t see), or complex explanations. Use a microphone so everyone hears instructions, provide written instructions at each table, have helpers answer questions, and consider breaking into smaller groups for some activities.
Choose games based on genuine fun rather than gender stereotypes, as both men and women enjoy trivia and knowledge-based challenges, skill-based competitions like diaper derby or bottle bowling, casual socializing without forced participation, activities with clear purposes, and good food. Skip outdated assumptions like “men need sports-themed games” or “women like sentimental activities,” and instead keep games brief with clear purposes, offer team-based options to reduce individual pressure, include physical activity options, avoid games requiring intimate pregnancy knowledge, and skip anything that might embarrass anyone. The best approach is knowing your specific guests rather than making assumptions about what any gender wants.
Small showers under 15 people allow for deeper activities like two truths and a lie (1-2 minutes per person), interviews with parents-to-be, story sharing about parenting wisdom or childhood memories, collaborative crafting on one project, detailed advice giving, or group time capsule creation. Take advantage of the intimate setting by choosing quality over quantity—one really good collaborative project beats three quick games. Don’t over-schedule; small groups often generate organic conversation, so plan one or two activities but be willing to let conversation flow naturally if that’s happening.
Yes, by choosing activities focused on celebration rather than embarrassment, knowledge rather than intimate details, and creativity rather than forced participation. Stick to comfortable games like creative projects (decorating onesies, creating artwork), general knowledge trivia (baby animals, baby-themed movies), collaborative activities (building baby’s library), optional participation games (wishes for baby, advice cards), and skill-based challenges (diaper derby, bottle bowling). Avoid anything involving the pregnant person’s body, intimate questions about the couple’s relationship, forced sharing of personal experiences, activities that embarrass individuals, or games requiring everyone to perform—and always make everything optional, avoid putting anyone on the spot, and read the room constantly.
Making Your Baby Shower Games Successful
Beyond choosing good games, execution matters.
Know Your Audience
Consider who’s attending when selecting baby shower games. A shower with close college friends has different needs than one with elderly relatives. A co-ed shower needs different games than a women-only gathering. Multi-generational groups need activities everyone can enjoy.
Think about personalities. Extroverts love performing and competing. Introverts prefer quieter activities or watching. Competitive people enjoy challenges. Casual guests just want to socialize. The best showers include options for different preferences.
Consider cultural backgrounds. Some cultures embrace games and activities enthusiastically. Others find forced participation uncomfortable. Respect cultural norms when planning.
Timing and Pacing
Space games throughout the baby shower rather than clustering them all together. Game time right at the start helps break ice. One during the middle maintains energy. Another while eating dessert keeps the party flowing.
Don’t pack too many games into too short a time. Rushing through activities creates stress rather than fun. Build in breathing room for conversation and organic socializing.
Watch the clock. If gift opening takes longer than expected, skip a planned game. If energy lags, introduce an active game. Flexibility serves the party better than rigid adherence to a schedule.
Clear Instructions
Nothing kills game energy like confusion about how to play. Before starting any game, explain rules clearly and simply. Demonstrate if helpful. Answer questions before beginning.
Provide written instructions when possible. Place instruction cards at craft stations. Include game rules with materials. Visual learners appreciate written guidance.
For complex games, do a practice round. Let everyone try it once without scoring to understand how it works. Then play for real.
Have a Backup Plan
Always prepare one more game than you plan to use. If something doesn’t work, you can pivot quickly. If the shower moves faster than expected, you have a filler ready.
Keep a simple game in your back pocket—something requiring no materials or preparation. Guess the number, over/under, or simple trivia can fill unexpected gaps.
Be willing to abandon games that aren’t working. If people seem uncomfortable or bored, cut your losses and move to something else or just let people socialize. Forced fun isn’t fun.
Create the Right Atmosphere
Set up baby shower games for success with good logistics. Ensure everyone can see and hear instructions. Provide adequate table space for writing or crafting. Have enough supplies for everyone.
Create comfortable, well-lit spaces for activities. Background music sets mood without overwhelming conversation. Temperature matters—overheated guests don’t enjoy anything.
For outdoor showers, have a plan B for weather. Even if forecast looks perfect, sudden rain can ruin outdoor games. Be prepared to move inside or have backup indoor activities.
The Bottom Line on Baby Shower Games
Great baby shower games enhance celebrations without creating awkwardness. They bring people together, generate genuine laughter, and create memories everyone cherishes. The best activities respect guests’ intelligence and comfort while honoring the occasion.
Choose games that align with your shower’s vibe and your guests’ preferences. Skip activities that might embarrass anyone. Focus on connection over competition, collaboration over forced participation, and celebration over obligation.
Remember: games are means, not ends. The purpose is celebrating new life and supporting parents-to-be. If games achieve that, they’re successful. If they don’t, scrap them and just enjoy being together.
Your baby shower will be meaningful not because you chose perfect games but because you gathered people who love the parents-to-be and the coming baby. Games simply facilitate connection and fun. Keep that perspective, and your shower will be wonderful regardless of which specific activities you choose.





